a very relaxed, and exceptionally cool 1920s wedding in Hackney | uk wedding blog

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This wedding is just incredible. Not only does Sonia look stunning in her 20s gown, her write up is wonderful AND that straw boater…! I love that there is no theme and that Sonia and Charles had exactly what they wanted, from Vietnamese cuisine to Daleks cupcakes.

Photography by Caterina Lay

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Charles and I had already been legally married in the San Francisco Bay area two weeks before our London wedding party (he’s a Californian), but our Hackney wedding was the bigger party and our chance to mark our wedding at home. We really wanted a fun, relaxed and slightly quirky day to celebrate with our friends and family.

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Sonia Charles Creative London Wedding Photographer Best Caterina Lay Hackney-92 Sonia Charles Creative London Wedding Photographer Best Caterina Lay Hackney-93 Sonia Charles Creative London Wedding Photographer Best Caterina Lay Hackney-94The FavoursGuests were also given faux royal wedding mugs as a favour, which started as a joke but then seemed too brilliantly silly not to carry through into real life. They were designed by illustrator Claire Hartley (http://www.clairehartley.com/) and based on a genuine royal wedding design.

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In terms of the venue decoration, we wanted to fit in with the chapel’s slightly faded elegance while bringing some light into what can be a slightly dark space. Little lights traced around the balustrade of the balcony helped to add a little extra sparkle, and I also spent weeks on ebay tracking down colourful vintage embroidered tablecloths.

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Our first dance was I Feel Love, by Bronski Beat and Marc Almond, and we had live music from the electronic duo Man With Feathers (https://soundcloud.com/adamparkinson) and a poptastic set from our good friend and professional DJ Jo Bunny (http://djjobunny.co.uk). The night finished with many of our guests piling down the road back to our house along with plenty of leftover wedding wine and snacks for a party that finished at 4am.

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