Olivia & Rob’s Wedding Stationery | UK Wedding Blog


This post has definitely been a long time coming, but I’m so pleased to finally share with you our beautiful wedding stationery.

If you’ve been following my posts from the start, you’ll know that our invitations were designed by our lovely friend Carina, who hand-painted everything from the flowers to the super cute map that doesn’t really have much purpose apart from looking pretty.
Just look at that! She drew the boat, rob’s racing car (as our venue is near the race track), and other little landmarks in the area.
We wanted our invitations to be completely bespoke and to give our guests an indication of what our wedding will be like on the day. We don’t have a “theme” as such, but as our venue is a farmhouse, it’s super relaxed and laid back, and will be filled with Autumnal colours, which is what we wanted to capture with the stationary.
Carina was so great with us, as it only took one meeting of sharing Pinterest boards for her to get a complete understanding of what we wanted. We just left her to it and she came up with the most perfect designs. The only thing we changed a little was the font for the main part of the text.
I’ve been nagging at her to start up her own website or Instagram page but she hasn’t got one as of yet, so if anyone reads this and wants to hire her to design their own invitations, drop me an email – olivia@soyouregettingmarried.com – and I’ll be sure to put you in touch. I can highly recommend her! She’s one of the most creative people I know, so I’m certain she’ll capture exactly what you want for a super reasonable price.
One thing we struggled with was the wording. A lot of invitations are sent out from the Bride’s parents point-of-view, i.e. “Mr and Mrs Slack invite you to the wedding of their daughter…” which I really didn’t like. I could sort of understand if our parents were paying for the whole thing, but to be honest, the cost has been split pretty much three ways by them, us, and Rob’s parents, so it didn’t seem right for things to be worded that way.
Carina is in the process of designing our table plan, place names, menu’s and table names, so I’ll definitely share those with you once we have them!
I really can’t believe how quickly everything is coming around! We’ve had our final details meeting with the venue and we also took our florist along so that she could get an idea of what we wanted. I’ve put complete trust in her and basically given her free reins to do whatever she wants. Luckily we’re both on the same wavelength so I’m not too worried about what our flowers turn out like!
Did you all catch up with Holly’s Hen Party post last week? It looks like she had an amazing time and it made me even more excited for my own, which is at the start of October, so I don’t have much longer to wait! Everyone’s doing such a good job about keeping things secret, so I can’t wait to see what they have planned for me…

Thirty under Thirty #73 | uk wedding blog

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Afternoon! Oh I am in love with this weeks offerings under £30. I have gone a litttttle down the ‘hello autumn’ vibe. I know some of you aren’t ready for it yet but as I write this it is torrential outside and I am sat in 2 woollen layers under a throw. I am loving the seasons embroidery trends, I don’t know if I could go all out but some little touches are pretty. I am going to be honest, this is basically a collection of everything I will buy come pay day. Enjoy!

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how to deal with wedding anxiety | uk wedding blog

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It has been nearly a year since I wrote about my own experience planning a wedding with anxiety and agoraphobia. Since then I would say I get messaged or emailed nearly on a daily basis from readers, or just people who have stumbled upon it, saying that it has helped them. A year on, my anxiety is better, my comfort zone is expanding and I have learnt some more tips and tricks in therapy that I think will help you.
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The Weekend Edit #43 – The One With The Dust | uk wedding blog

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Good afternoon all! Last week was definitely testing. So far, nearly all the companies we have worked with have been terrible in some respect but a business this week took first place for being class A ar*eholes. The entirety of downstairs was blanketed in a thick layer of dust, even with the use of dust sheets but we now have a decent hole in the wall. Read More

So I’m Not Getting Married | UK Wedding Blog

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Where I last left off, I was wrapping things up in New York and furiously scribbling away at a bunch of posts to schedule for the time I planned to be in London (and thus banned from anything that might remotely be construed as working, paid or no). I’d hoped, right now, to be writing up my final pre-wedding thoughts to share with you all. But that’s not what’s happening at all.

In short, I am not getting married. For privacy reasons, I don’t want to go into much detail, but suffice it to say that the challenges of short-distancing our long-distance relationship were greater than I’d anticipated. And after a lot of turmoil, we ended up calling things off. I’m back home in New York now, feeling an incredible mix of shame and relief and guilt. I’m confident that calling the wedding off was the right thing to do, but that doesn’t mean it’s been easy in the slightest.

It’s not how I wanted this story to end, but there you have it. Thanks to everyone who’s followed my wedding journey on here. I’ve loved writing for SYGM, and while it’s more than a bit embarrassing to have to come back with this update, I’ll always look back fondly on my time as a blogging bride.

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After waiting 8 long, patient months, my hen party is officially over! It was one of the best weekends I’ve ever had, surrounded by the most amazing ladies and filled with a lot of laughs, love, alcohol and food. Take me back already!Read More

a luxe, rustic French wedding | uk wedding blog

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Lottie & Sandy 196 HI RES Amy Faith Photography

Morning! When Amy submitted this wedding, within the first few photos I knew it would be a yes. I loved the feel of the photography and how she had captured Lottie and Michael’s day. With a mix of rustic french charm and a little bit of glamour they achieved a simply beautiful wedding with an effortless relaxed feeling. The idea of getting married abroad may seem idyllic, Lottie has shared some helpful tips if you have just started the planning process and considering marrying overseas. Enjoy!

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The Weekend Edit #42 | uk wedding blog

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Merry afternoon! How’s your Monday been so far? This week has been OK, do you ever have days or weeks where you just feel a bit blue? A bit meh? But can’t really put a finger on why? Well this week was like that. Work on the house is progressing but nothing major has been done yet. Hoping that this week is slightly more cheerful!Read More